The Space Between What Worked and What Works Now

The Space Between What Worked and What Works Now

I have watched nonprofit founders navigate a particular kind of confusion that surfaces when their organizations begin to grow, and what strikes me most is how rarely anyone names what is actually happening. The skills that launched the organization—the ability to move quickly, to wear every hat, to make decisions in hallways and over coffee—become the very things that prevent the organization from reaching its next stage of development. This is not a failure of leadership, but it is a transition that demands recognition.


The Dangerous Comfort of Fuzzy Structures

In the early days of a nonprofit, a fuzzy organizational structure feels like freedom. Decisions happen organically, roles shift based on who shows up, and the mission moves forward through collective will and shared passion. This fluidity works because everyone involved understands the informal agreements, the unspoken hierarchies, and the ways things get done without needing to be written down or formalized.

When you introduce paid staff into this environment, however, the lack of clarity becomes crippling. Staff members need to understand to whom they report, their responsibilities, and how their performance will be evaluated. They need job descriptions, clear communication channels, and accountability structures that simply do not exist in volunteer-driven models. What felt like collaborative flexibility to volunteers feels like organizational chaos to employees who are trying to do their jobs well.

The board faces its own reckoning during this transition. As one analysis of this shift notes, organizations often find themselves caught in a space between structures for years, embroiled in painful issues while naming symptoms but rarely facing the true cause—failing to fully transition from one organizational model to another. The board has to relinquish operational authority and allow staff to hold far more authority than they have in the past.


When Founder Skills Become Organizational Constraints

I think about the founder who launched a food bank from her garage, who knew every volunteer by name, who could pack boxes, write grants, and manage the social media account all in the same afternoon. Her ability to do everything was the reason the organization survived its first three years. When the organization hired its first program director, however, that same founder struggled to delegate, to trust someone else’s judgment, to step back from daily operations and focus on governance and strategic direction.

This pattern repeats across the nonprofit sector with remarkable consistency. The entrepreneurial instincts that create organizations—the willingness to act without perfect information, the comfort with ambiguity, the ability to pivot quickly—do not necessarily translate into the management skills required to lead a growing entity with multiple staff members, complex programs, and increasing demands for accountability.

The data reveals the scope of this challenge. Only 30 percent of C-suite roles in the nonprofit sector were filled by internal promotion in the past two years, about half the rate of for-profits. This suggests that organizations are not developing leadership pipelines, not preparing their teams for the transitions that growth inevitably requires.


What the Transition Actually Demands

The shift from volunteer-based to staff-driven operations requires more than hiring people and writing job descriptions. It demands a fundamental reimagining of how the organization functions, how decisions get made, and where power resides. The board must move from doing the work to governing the work, from managing programs to setting policy and ensuring accountability.

This transition asks founders to examine whether their current skills serve the organization’s current needs. It asks board members to release their attachment to operational control and embrace their role as strategic overseers. It asks everyone involved to acknowledge that the informal structures that worked beautifully at one stage of development may need to be replaced with more formal systems as the organization matures.

I have noticed that the organizations that navigate this transition successfully tend to approach it with curiosity rather than resistance. They ask questions about what structures would serve their staff well, what governance practices would support rather than hinder their mission, and what leadership development their team needs to grow into new roles. They recognize that this transition is not about abandoning the passion and commitment that launched the organization, but about channeling that energy through structures that can sustain and amplify it.


The Path Forward Exists in Present Choices

You do not need to have all the answers before you begin this transition. What you need is a willingness to acknowledge that the transition is happening, that it requires attention and intention, and that the skills that brought you here may not be the skills that take you forward. The organizations that struggle most are not those that lack resources or talent, but those that refuse to name what is actually occurring and make space for the structural changes that growth demands.

The choice available to you now is whether to attend to this transition with care and deliberation, or to allow it to unfold in ways that create confusion, conflict, and missed opportunities. The fuzzy organizational structure that once felt like freedom can become the barrier that prevents your mission from reaching the people who need it most. What worked when you were five volunteers meeting in someone’s living room may not work when you are fifteen staff members serving hundreds of clients each month.

This recognition does not diminish what you have built. It honors it by asking what it needs to become next.

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Your Environment Is Your Architecture

Your Environment Is Your Architecture

Many of us are struggling to understand our worth outside the economic engine of society. The message is rarely stated outright, but it saturates the air: to be more, we must not only do more, but also buy more. This assumption fuels countless conversations—at work, at home, and inside our own heads.

I am guilty of this, too. AI has accelerated the tempo of professional life, and I catch myself turning that tempo into a test of relevance. I ask colleagues whether they now use it to generate content, manage social media campaigns, or prospect for donors. I have been shown tools that “strategize,” producing plans and roadmaps for organizations in minutes. I keep wondering where these plans and roadmaps ultimately lead—or, more pointedly, what they train us to believe about the kind of human being we have to become in order to matter.

This past weekend, I picked up Philosophical Leisure (2007) by Dr. Annette Holba, and she reminded me—uncomfortably—that we have already arrived at a destination. Lasch (1979) described this place as a culture of narcissism. Arnett (1994) framed it as a kind of existential homelessness. In such a place, Holba argues, “human communication is enveloped with a general sense of malaise that is the result of an emerging lack of the interhuman or authentic interest in the other” (p. 21).

One corollary of that condition is that our worth gets measured—quietly, relentlessly—in productivity. Reflecting on this (and spurred by Holba’s work), I can see that I still subscribe, at least partially, to a familiar Western equation: productivity equals value.

While I no longer check work emails on the weekend, I still feel a concern in my body that I am somehow derelict in my professional duties. How dare I enjoy myself? How dare I be a philosopher, when clearly there are more important things to do—master the latest tools, find the next corporate sponsor, issue the next press release, create the next post, stay visible, stay useful.

It isn’t only that I’m anxious about productivity. I have also sabotaged my personal life in an effort to demonstrate commitment to organizational causes. In recognizing that my positionality as a CIS white man has afforded me an unbelievable amount of privilege and opportunity, I find myself struggling to feel I can offer anything of value outside my output—as if I must keep producing to justify my place in any space.

I do not say any of this to elicit pity. I’m saying it because I’m coming to grips with a stark fact. I have built a life in which “work” is the main space where I feel legible.

I do not really make friends, but my ability to merge the personal with the professional has enabled me to create the illusion of a life full of meaning. As a philosopher and poet in my heart, the extent to which I have sacrificed hopes and dreams in an effort to apologize for my existence is exhausting.

Identity Matters

Race, gender, class, and history shape what happens to us and our experience of reality. However, when identity becomes the only story available—when it replaces curiosity, tenderness, and complexity—we reduce one another. We turn living people into categories and then act surprised when our relationships feel thin.

Certainly, the fact that I am a CIS white man is an important fact of my existence, and it has influenced my experience as a human being. However, I am also a man who sometimes cries when he hears beautiful music, or while making egg sandwiches.

I am a man who enjoys walking in nature, running down country roads on Friday afternoons, watching The Rockford Files at midnight, and missing the days when my sons were little—when they could both be held in my arms at the same time. I am also a man who loves his parents and cannot imagine a life, much less a single day, without them. I make ridiculous jokes, laugh when someone farts, and I miss my grandmother.

I am all these things and so much more (and sometimes less), which means I can only assume every human on this planet possesses forms of worth and texture that are uniquely theirs. Perhaps there is an opportunity—an opening, a space—for us to acknowledge the multiplicities of our lives without trying to reduce, eliminate, or monetize their meaning.

Not everything meaningful is measurable, monetized, or shareable, because life is not a spectacle. It is an inward journey we live together in public spaces on a planet that is literally moving through outer space right now.

In a world that keeps trying to sell us the next “optimized” solution, maybe the starting point is simpler. What do you and I actually need?

If we do not yet know how to answer that question, I think that is just fine. Let’s start in a space where we know nothing, because those spaces often offer the greatest opportunities.


References

  • Arnett, R. C. (1994). Existential homelessness: A contemporary case for dialogue. In R. Anderson, K. N. Cissna, & R. C. Arnett (Eds.), The reach of dialogue: Confirmation, voice, and community (pp. 229–245). Cresskill, NJ: Hampton Press.
  • Holba, A. M. (2007). Philosophical leisure: Recuperation and the care of the self. Lanham, MD: Lexington Books.
  • Lasch, C. (1979). The culture of narcissism: American life in an age of diminishing expectations. New York, NY: W. W. Norton.

 

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Identity & Existence

Identity & Existence

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If I can see it,
I cant be it,
because the experience
is not to be
or not to be
but the extent to which I am
me,
which is not an easy thing
nor does it bring
me joy
to feel lost in space,
someday gone without a trace,
a single wave
in a vast sea
that moves
with and without me,
and yet is the measure of a man
measured at all,
how much,
how high,
how tall?
Am I real?
Will I wake up
after I fall,
or will I keep dreaming
of a life
I can’t remember
much before December
as I grasp for answers
in words that take flight
in the middle of the night,
curled up tight
beneath a blanket
on my couch,
listening to sports radio,
stars twinkling overhead
in outer space,
I toss
and turn,
and I regret
things
I could have changed,
forget things
I can’t lose,
remember
things
I can’t forget,
hold onto things
I never had,
let go
of what I never knew,
the real
and the true
the me
in you,
and just you,
the man I am
becoming,
who cries
because it’s Friday morning
in a seven day life,
and I’ve lost my appetite
for the future.

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  • Inside: Pause, breathe, notice.
  • Outside: Design rooms, rituals, and agendas that slow the spin and invite care.
  • Between us: Make dialogue a place where different truths can live together long enough to teach something.

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Men Cry, Too

Men Cry, Too

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I once dreamed
a dream
where men knew how to cry
and loved to feel
and let their hearts decide
what is right
and real.
These men could cry
for any reason
in any season,
because tears
were the currency
and could be earned
and freely given.
Men cried
for no reason at all,
because the universe is vast
and we are small,
because moms pass away
and that will never be okay,
because dinosaurs are gone
and that feels sad, too,
and everyday, entire species disappear,
while we cheer
the latest advance
against mystery and happenstance.
These men cried
for the loves they still had
and the one that got away
on an otherwise ordinary day,
because men struggle
to grasp
that hearts
don’t hang from strings
but instead dangle just out of reach in space,
the final frontier,
the one so far
because it’s right here.

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About Spaciology

Spaciology is not abstract theory; rather, it is a practice you can feel.

  • Inside: Pause, breathe, notice.
  • Outside: Design rooms, rituals, and agendas that slow the spin and invite care.
  • Between us: Make dialogue a place where different truths can live together long enough to teach something.

Ultimately, leadership is the art of making space for what’s important (for everyone) and letting that clarity shape the next step. When we change the spaces from which we lead, our strategies change with them.

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Lost in Space

Lost in Space

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How do I hold
these tears
in my heart,
which start
beneath
the polished veneer
of the here
and now.
How can I hold
these fears
of letting go
of truth,
of knowledge
and where my sadness
takes me,
breaks me.
How do I hold these years,
which slip through my hands,
the plans
I had
and the dreams,
seems
too long ago
when I could hold
my sons in my arms
and drift into a sleep
that held us.
How do I hold
these memories
and the ache in my heart
for times
lost in space?

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Your story is your strategy.

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Whether you are a person navigating a life transition, a leader seeking clarity, or an organization preparing for what is next, we help you move from scattered to strategic.

About Spaciology

Spaciology is not abstract theory; rather, it is a practice you can feel.

  • Inside: Pause, breathe, notice.
  • Outside: Design rooms, rituals, and agendas that slow the spin and invite care.
  • Between us: Make dialogue a place where different truths can live together long enough to teach something.

Ultimately, leadership is the art of making space for what’s important (for everyone) and letting that clarity shape the next step. When we change the spaces from which we lead, our strategies change with them.

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